90's R&B group Intro

My friend Yolanda and I were reminiscing about our days at Ft. Bragg when she told me that Intro's lead singer, the late Kenny Green, was in her unit and loved to sing to her all the time. I thought I'd see if there were any videos on Youtube and I was in luck. Greene had crazy talent (singer, songwriter, arranger, etc.) Click on the Youtube link to watch other videos and view their first interview with Donnie Simpson on Video Soul. Enjoy! 

Dirty Words: Increasing a woman's sexual arousal with Zestra

SEX.  Girls, can we talk about it? I can! Come join me or just read along silently.

Viagra, Levitra, Cialis... male erectile dysfunction.  No one seems to mind that commercials taunting drugs that help men achieve sexual satisfaction are shown constantly but the women who created Zestra for women can't buy advertising slots.

I watch Nightline from time to time and was surprised to see an interview revealing that Zestra is not widely advertised because the major networks are too squeamish to allow the advertisements to air even after requested changes to the language of the ads, which were already tame, were made.

What's the problem?  Is it because women are mothers, daughters, sisters and dear old aunties that no one wants to see a commercial presenting a product that gives them sexual healing? Are men the only ones allowed to speak openly about problems that decrease their libido and solutions to those problems?  Unfortunately, the answer seems to be "Yes."

Thanks to shows like Nightline, The View and Rachael Ray taking an interest, the company is finally getting the publicity it deserves and literally couldn't buy before. Just like men, women have health conditions that inhibit their ability to experience a satisfying sex life.  And like men, they want to be able to have great sex and mind blowing orgasms again.  There should be no shame in that.  Humans are sexual creatures.  It's natural, people!  If Zestra helps to accomplish that, show the ads all day long... just like they do for Viagra and the others.

Ladies, you can get a free sample of Zestra (you pay shipping and handling) and sign up for a $5.00 coupon. The website has information on conditions that adversely affect a woman's sexuality and ways to increase sexual desire.  Zestra is not a medication but is all natural -- botanical oils and extracts.  Get your groove on; bring your sexy back, free your inner freak!  Get yourself some Zestra, girl and don't worry about the prudes who are trying to keep us in the dark about it.

Bishop Eddie Long --- It's Your Time... to be truthful about who you really are

Embattled mega church leader Bishop Eddie Long spoke to his congregation regarding the allegations that he coerced several young men from the worship center into sexual relationships. Long stated that while he never portrayed himself as a perfect man, he is not the man the media portrays. He also compared himself to David in the fight against Goliath.  Promising to fight "vigorously", Long warned that he has five stones, none of which he has thrown.

The New Birth Baptist Church congregation erupted in thunderous applause in support of their pastor.  Those willing to speak to reporters upon leaving the service said that they believed Bishop Long and would stand by him.


CNN anchor Fredricka Whitfield spoke with CNN correspondent Martin Savidge  about Long's speech as well as Shayne Lee, author of  Holy Mavericks, and Craig Washington, writer for The Root.   It seemed that all three felt that Long spoke with a lack of conviction and did not make a clear declaration of innocence.  Lee was the most outspoken in his belief that this is the beginning of Long's downfall as leader of the 25,000 member church.

Even before watching Long's televised speech to his parishioners, it has been my opinion that the young men who have bravely come forward to reveal their ordeal are telling the truth and Bishop Long should stand boldly on the truth of who he really is, a smart, calculating, and patient pedophile who waited until his prey was of the age of consent to avoid criminal charges. His speech only served to further cement my beliefs.  

Those reading this post will undoubtedly accuse me of being judgmental. Absolutely! As a pastor, this man has stood in judgment of people every Sunday telling them what actions and methods of living are sinful and instructing them on how to conduct themselves.  Why should he not be held accountable and to a higher standard given his position as a leader? He knew from the moment he conceived the notion of taking advantage of those young men that he was in violation of  the very religious teachings he so charismatically belted out weekly.  He knew in his heart, where no man can hide from his true self, that he enjoyed the same homosexual activity that he so loudly declared to be morally and religiously wrong. It is simply ludicrous to think that the same biblical principles and societal customs should not be adhered to by Bishop Long.  

And yes, I said that those young men are brave... because they are. Who are they in the eyes of society?  Have you ever heard their names mentioned before this report was made public?  Still, they were willing to subject themselves to untold scrutiny, anger, and ostracism to take on a man with a tremendous public platform who has more wealth, powerful connections, and influence than they may even dare dream of having in their lifetime. Yet, they came forward to expose a well insulated predator. They should be celebrated by responsible parents everywhere.  
  
I am the parent of a teenage male and if we were members of that church, I would be actively questioning him as to whether or not he was ever approached by this pastor in the manner described in the lawsuits.  As parents, we sometimes focus so much on having our children become independent and self-sufficient that we unwittingly throw them to the wolves presenting themselves as sheep (or in this case, shepherds) to our society.  We need to realize that it is not a crime to be an active participant in our child's life.  Rather, it is a necessity to protect them from the wolves of humanity waiting for the opportunity to devour them. Instead of being there for Bishop Long, the members of his congregation should be standing with these men on their treacherous journey in search of justice, the release of the burden and pain endured over the years under the weight of such a heavy secret and the ever elusive peace of mind.

I challenge the members of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church to be judgmental and demanding of their bishop in defense of children in their congregation.  Save them from the monster in the $4,000 suit as they are too naive and vulnerable to protect themselves.  It is your duty as a parent, as an official of the church, or even just as an adult who is better equipped to stand in opposition of another adult.  The church should be a refuge instead of the hostile environment it's leader has turned it into for those men.

Please read "A Sermon for Bishop Eddie Long" by Craig Washington.  I came across it as I searched for applicable links for my own post.  He is a far better writer than I and puts forth a compelling case for church goers everywhere to refrain from idolizing pastors.  They are as human as the rest of us. While that is often spoken as a first defense for their immoral, criminal or just plain bad behavior, it is not a viable excuse to allow them to remain on a pedestal after they've severely abused their position and power while their victims continue to be abused by the unfair judgment and condemnation heaped upon them because they dare to try to pull back the veil and reveal the identity of their tormentor.  And torment is what these men will endure for years to come even if their allegations are proven and upheld in court.  Are you standing by and protecting the predator? 



Bishop Long, it's your time... time to be truthful about who you really are and what you've done. You've been called out and you know that you cannot stand on a lie.  If you used your power, influence, and wealth to betray your duties as the church bishop and prod young, impressionable and vulnerable teenagers to engage in homosexual activity with you, you need to be the leader and man you claim to be and own it. It's time.